Do you care about your words you speak?

Are you one of those people that really care about your words or do you speak what you want and don't really care?  Well, I really care, I always try to be careful what I say,  I pray that the words I speak came out right, that nobody is offended, that I understand others feelings and although I share my thoughts, there are always other ways to look at things.  There is always a perspective that I haven't thought of.  Everyones lives are so different, their marital status, their dreams, their health, their children, their extended families, their goals...and there is no way that I can know everything going on in a persons life to protect them from WORDS.  I pray that the people I share life with know this and would care enough to talk to me, to communicate how I might have made them feel, share their differences with me but sometimes that doesn't happen.  Communication is a difficult thing...I just talked to a friend yesterday about how we certainly wouldn't want to be a preteen or teen  growing up now in a word of social media where communication is so easy via text, instagram or snap chat because when they see these friends in PERSON...oh no, they have no clue how to communicate face to face?

So, I ask myself, why do I share so much about how I feel, about things I love, about experiences I have had and the life that I am living??  Who really cares?  Why don't I just listen???  I don't know...I am thinking that I want to let my friends know... YES, I have experienced that TOO, or this is what worked for us, or I can't believe this happens, I want to be real, I want to see if liked minds will lead us to the plan that God has for us, WHY would He bring us together RIGHT?  So, I share all that I have and all that I know, hoping to connect or maybe even help just one person, hoping to make a deeper connection with friends!!!!  I'm living a life, growing everyday, making mistakes, wishing I wouldn't have, wishing I could have, my heart wants to help but sometimes it hurts without even knowing or intending to.   The main thing I have to focus on from all of this is God knows my heart, and it is HIM and only Him that I have to answer too in the end.  As for now, I will continue to pray for discernment, keep my eyes fixed on him to help me continue to learn his ways,  to continue to try not to intentionally hurt anyone and to comfort and help those in need.   

If you have a experience you would like to share and how you have grow with the hurt, spoken or unspoken words I would love for you to share.  #bringingithome